Dads Dating After Divorce
Dating after divorce isn’t what it used to be—especially when you’re a dad. The rules have changed, the world has changed, and now you’ve got kids in the mix. Join Dallas and Jude as they share real-world strategies and insights from their work with dads and men at BlackBoxDating.com and TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.
Episodes
40 episodes
40 - The Tom Brady Trap: Why "Too Busy" is Actually a Choice
Tom Brady says he’s too busy for a personal life, and that excuse hits different when you’re a divorced dad trying to coordinate dating around custody exchanges, work, and real-world exhaustion. We dig into what “no time” usually means, how pri...
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Episode 40
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59:50
39 - Stability Over Performance With Special Guest Ric Taylor
Dating after divorce can turn even confident dads into performers. You start chasing the perfect opener, the perfect outfit, the perfect “game,” and somehow you feel worse after every date. We go the other direction with therapist and coach Ric...
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Episode 39
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1:01:04
38 - Doing vs. Being: The Secret to Helping Her Find Her Feminine Again
Ever watch your date sprint to the hostess stand while you’re still catching up to the curb? We’ve been there—and we’re turning that awkward start into a playbook for calm leadership, real connection, and dates that feel lighter for both of you...
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Episode 38
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1:06:14
37 - Emotional Parkour: The Tests Women Love to Throw at Men
Dating after divorce shouldn’t feel like an audit, yet so many dads find themselves fielding questions, jabs, and last-minute pivots that turn dinner into emotional parkour. We call them fortitude tests—moments where she checks whether your con...
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Season 1
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Episode 37
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1:03:00
36 - Porn-Induced ED: The Elephant in the Room for Divorced Dads
Is your scrolling stealing your spark? We take a hard, honest look at how porn and compulsive release drain confidence, flatten energy, and quietly sabotage your dating life as a divorced dad. Without shaming or moralizing, we walk through the ...
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Episode 36
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1:00:16
35 - Recreational dating with less guilt and more fun
Dating after divorce doesn’t need to be chaotic, heavy, or ruled by outdated “game” tactics. We dive deep into recreational dating as a clean, honest framework that helps dads decompress, sharpen essential skills, and choose commitment only whe...
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Episode 35
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1:07:21
34 - Wait...since when do we send voice notes?
Dating after divorce shouldn’t feel like decoding a secret menu. We unpack the new rules of communication for 2026—where swipes, voice notes, and five-minute video vibe checks can either waste your energy or quietly fast-track you into a great ...
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Episode 34
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1:16:42
33 - Certified Pre-Owned: Putting a Premium on Fatherhood
Doubt can be loud after a divorce, but what if the truth is that fatherhood is your quiet advantage? We dig into why single dads carry built-in signals of commitment, safety, and competence—qualities women instinctively value—and how to stop hi...
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Episode 33
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1:08:54
32 - High Status Dads: What Being a Father Signals in the Dating Market
The dating world loves loud status symbols, but here’s the twist: the traits that truly move a woman’s heart are quiet, steady, and earned. We dig into why divorced dads often start with a hidden edge—preselection, proven commitment, and hard-w...
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1:13:57
31 - The Kid Readiness Check: Strategies for Moving from Vetting to Blending
Dating after divorce doesn’t come with a manual, especially when your love life intersects with your kids’ lives. We break down a practical, low-drama roadmap for introducing a new partner to your children—starting with the “divorce dust” rule,...
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Episode 31
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1:15:11
30 - Stop Flashing Your Cash: Why High-End Dinners Are False Advertising
Tired of hearing you need $200 dinners to be taken seriously? We flip that script. Jude and Dallas lay out a practical, confident way to date after divorce that prioritizes financial responsibility, creativity, and genuine connection over the s...
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Episode 30
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1:03:28
29 - Choosing One Woman: How to Avoid the "Nice Guy" Commitment Trap
The jump from casual dates to a committed relationship after divorce isn’t about perfect timing or a clever script—it’s about self-leadership. We dig into how divorced dads can date with purpose, protect their finite resources, and choose exclu...
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Episode 29
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28 - Profile Purge & Height Embargo: 10 Rules for 2026
Ready to swap “new year, new me” for something that actually works? We break down ten real, repeatable resolutions for divorced dads who want to date with confidence, class, and a sense of humor. It starts with the pictures—no fish, no trucks, ...
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Episode 28
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57:43
27 - Stocking Stuffers: Diving into Dating App Clichés
Dating apps can feel like a hall of mirrors—sarcasm, “no drama,” tacos and margs, and endless wanderlust. We decided to have some holiday fun and dig beneath the clichés to find the real signals, the hidden landmines, and the easy wins for divo...
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26 - Single Mom Tests: Scheduling, the Ex, and Other Relationship Killers
The Brady Bunch made blending look easy; real life demands better tools. We dive straight into the third rail of post-divorce dating: should single dads date single moms, and how do you do it without drowning in scheduling chaos, ex drama, and ...
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Episode 26
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25 - Emoting vs. Communicating: Give Her the Release She Needs
Dating after divorce can feel like the Wild West—especially when emotions run high and the old rules no longer apply. We dig into one of the most misunderstood dynamics in modern relationships: the difference between emoting and communicating, ...
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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24 - Who Pays on the First Date?
The first date “Who pays?” moment can tank chemistry or lift the whole night—and after divorce, the stakes feel even higher. We dig into the chivalry paradox: honoring equality while still creating romance, leading without controlling, and payi...
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Episode 24
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23 - Secrets to Cold Approach: How to Leverage Scarcity and Get Her Number
Swiping promises abundance; real life delivers clarity. We’re talking about how divorced dads can ditch the dependency on apps and create warm, natural conversations anywhere—grocery lines, coffee shops, hardware stores—that actually lead to da...
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Episode 23
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1:14:58
22 - Let's Talk About Sex: Leading Her to Intimacy, One Touch at a Time
Most men try to plan their way to great sex and end up killing the spark. We take a different route: build trust with clear statements, create a protected space for intimacy, and then let go of the plan so real desire can surprise you both....
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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1:08:55
21 - Let's Get Physical: The Art Of Escalation
If touch has felt confusing after divorce—too fast, too formal, or just plain awkward—this conversation gives you a clear path from grounded presence to real chemistry. Jude and Dallas unpack the missing link many men never learned: how to make...
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Episode 21
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20 - Kids or No Kids: Who Should You Date After Divorce?
Dating after divorce can feel like rebuilding a house on old foundations—and that’s exactly why we argue for a full scrape and rebuild. We get real about the question every single dad faces on the apps: her kids, my kids, or no kids? Instead of...
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Episode 20
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19 - Checklists are Sexy: Lead Her with Clarity, One Step at a Time
New relationships don’t need a contract; they need direction. We dig into the messy, exciting space after a few dates where interest is real, logistics are heavy, and you’re wondering how to move from casual to committed without killing the spa...
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Episode 19
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1:11:53
18 - From Availability To Attraction
Ever get a “let me check my schedule” that drifts into silence? We unpack why availability feels confusing, how to read it without taking it personally, and what to do instead of pushing for a plan. Our focus: inviting, not burdening. You’ll le...
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Episode 18
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1:14:57
17 - From Checklists to Chemistry: Decoding Her Dating Profile
Ever stare at a profile and think, What does any of this actually mean? We go straight at the modern maze of dating after divorce—where “active,” “preferably no kids,” and political banners can make or break a match before you’ve said hello. As...
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Episode 17
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16 - Green Flags & Gut Checks: What Makes a Great Partner After Divorce
Red flags are easy to spot. What’s harder—and far more useful—is training your eye for the green flags that tell you a relationship can actually work. We dive into the signals that matter most for dads dating after divorce: respect for fatherho...
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Episode 16
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